Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's mood today is decidedly more morose than it was two years ago when the two excitedly snuck into Las Vegas and got married a month before getting married in front of family and friends at Affleck's mansion in Georgia. Yes, today is Lopez and Affleck's second wedding anniversary. Lopez has flown out to Europe and the Hamptons, while Affleck remains in Los Angeles, where the mansion they just purchased together last year is officially on the market.

How Lopez and Affleck will spend their second wedding anniversary today, and whether or not they will see each other, is at least still unknown; EntertainmentTonight reports that while they are apart, they are “focused on their loved ones.”

“Jen and Ben are trying to focus on their loved ones while they are apart,” a source said. Jen and Ben are putting their children and their respective families first as they work through this change.”

After meeting and becoming engaged in the early 1980s, postponing and later canceling a planned wedding in 2003, and then saying goodbye once and for all in 2004, the couple reunited in 2021 and became engaged for a second time in April 2022. They had two weddings that summer and bought a house they shared the following year. This February, Lopez released “This Is Me.... Now” and a tribute to Affleck in the form of the Amazon Prime documentary ‘The Greatest Love Story Never Told. ’In May, Affleck missed the Met Gala with Lopez (which he co-chaired), and the public Realizing this, later that month Lopez canceled her planned summer tour. Although the couple spent most of the summer apart, Lopez was spotted with Affleck's oldest daughter, Violet, over the weekend, captioning a video of the two of them simply, “Summertime.”

Sources speaking to “Entertainment Tonight” said that “they are trying to present themselves in a positive way for the kids,” and one source previously told the magazine that Lopez and Affleck are “trying to be as amicable as possible.”

Last week, news broke that the two had put their Beverly Hills mansion on the market for $68 million, a month after “Entertainment Tonight” learned that they were “quietly trying to sell” the couple's house. Affleck moved out of the house several months ago and is staying in a rental property in Brentwood.

“They still want what is best for everyone involved,” one source said. 'That includes their children, other family members, and mutual friends.'

Their wedding rings remain worn, for the most part, and “Ben and Jen are aware that fans are paying attention to see if they are wearing rings,” the source said.

However, the outlet added, “The couple couldn't care less if people are looking at their fingers.”

So, yeah, happy anniversary?